Update

I’ve filed a report with local police and the FBI.

I’ve also decided to take a little break from social media. I didn’t want to, because I don’t want those fucks to think they’ve shut me up. They haven’t.

But the reality is that this situation I’m in boils down to people being assholes online. And I have a life away from my laptop that deserves more attention than those shits do.

So to those assholes photoshopping my pics (yes, I know who you are) and to the assholes in the Hunger Games fandom talking shit about me (yes, I know who you are) and to any other person in the world who has a problem with what I do or how I carry myself:

You don’t deserve my attention. You don’t deserve anyone’s attention. You are not worth one more second of my limited but valuable time on this Earth.

Not sure when I’ll be back, but I will. There’s just other stuff going on in my life right now, and I’d rather spend time on that.

Thanks everyone.

illbeyourqueenofasgard:

martinyfreeman:

speightbrigade:

221b-bag-end:

moriarty:

samtemple-davidtemple:

zachary quinto is great because theres two sides of him.

the man who is known as best dressed look

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then you have the wats going on look.

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classy millionaire

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colorful hobo

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suave well-dressed motherfucker

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attractive dork

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Holy mother of… image

wait wat…

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fuck-you-i-won-a-bafta

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can i have four chicken nuggets

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Hello I’m here to ruin your life

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Oh wait I’m always perfect

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I think one thing you can do to help your friends who are depressed is to reach out to them not in the spirit of helping, but in the spirit of liking them and wanting their company. “I’m here to help if you ever need me” is good to know, but hard to act on, especially when you’re in a dark place. Specific, ongoing, pleasure-based invitations are much easier to absorb. “I’m here. Let’s go to the movies. Or stay in and order takeout and watch some dumb TV.” “I’m having a party, it would be really great if you could come for a little while.” Ask them for help with things you know they are good at and like doing, so there is reciprocity and a way for them to contribute. “Will you come over Sunday and help me clear my closet of unfashionable and unflattering items? I trust your eye.” “Will you read this story I wrote and help me fix the dialogue?” “Want to make dinner together? You chop, I’ll assemble.” “I am going glasses shopping and I need another set of eyes.” Remind yourself why you like this person, and in the process, remind them that they are likable and worth your time and interest.

Talk to the parts of the person that aren’t being eaten by the depression. Make it as easy as possible to make and keep plans, if you have the emotional resources to be the initiator and to meet your friends a little more than halfway. If the person turns down a bunch of invitations in a row because (presumably) they don’t have the energy to be social, respect their autonomy by giving it a month or two and then try again. Keep the invitations simple; “Any chance we could have breakfast Saturday?” > “ARE YOU AVOIDING ME BECAUSE YOU’RE DEPRESSED OR BECAUSE YOU HATE ME I AM ONLY TRYING TO HELP YOU.” “I miss you and I want to see you” > “I’m worried about you.” A depressed person is going to have a shame spiral about how their shame is making them avoid you and how that’s giving them more shame, which is making them avoid you no matter what you do. No need for you to call attention to it. Just keep asking. “I want to see you” “Let’s do this thing.” “If you are feeling low, I understand, and I don’t want to impose on you, but I miss your face. Please come have coffee with me.” “Apology accepted. ApologIES accepted. So. Gelato and Outlander?”

#613: How do I reach out to my friends who have depression? | Captain Awkward

P.S. A lot of people with depression and other mental illnesses have trouble making decisions or choosing from a bunch of different options. “Wanna get dinner at that pizza place on Tuesday night?” is a LOT easier to answer than “So wanna hang out sometime? What do you want to do?”

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So someone sent me a link to a website - either to inform me or intimidate me. It seems there’s a thread on a men’s rights website that took my pics and photoshopped them into all sorts of degrading torture and rape poses, while also calling me every ugly name in the book. All because I replied to a hateful anonymous message with a smartass answer, and this is my way of being “punished.”

Rape culture, ladies and gentlemen.

joshs-left-earlobe asked:

You probably know how awesome I think you are, not only as a writer, but as a person who speaks her mind, and can be honest without fail using your witty sense of humor. Thanks for doing what many of us want to do but don't! Btw love your snapchats!

Thank you. I’m feeling pretty shitty today for a variety of reasons, and this made me smile a lot. You’re lovely.

endlessstarryskies22 asked:

So apparently I missed nude gate thanks to work sucking out my soul. So I hopped on over to your page to see what the dilli-o was and found your nudes. 1st thought-holy fuck Karen's hair looks fierce as fuck! 2nd thought- haha check out this bad ass bitch showing that anon who's boss! 3rd thought- I fucking love this chick! Also hey now hot mama! You are fabulous and I adore you!

I love you endlessly. Thank you.

I wouldn’t tell my nine-year-old self anything! I’ve seen Back to the Future enough to know that you don’t mess with time. Nice try, bro.
Chris Pratt, responding to “What if you could tell your nine-year-old self, “One day, you’ll be starring in a film based on these comics you love?” - Rolling Stone, Issue 1215. (via captainsassmerica)

Anonymous asked:

With Jen and other celebs naked photos running around the web do u really believe there is something we can do to stop or effect the way social media works or treats woman? Or is the media already too corrupt and powerful to prevent it from happening?

fuckingplebe answered:

Dialogue is key, it’s important. No, there is no way to enact overall change and a dismantling of this sexist patriarchal society with just one incident. Or even hundreds of incidents. But feminists have to stay vigilant. I know people shit on “social justice warriors” and “twitter activism,” but I fully stand by the idea that talking about these kinds of issues, intelligently, and opening a thoughtful dialogue and writing and reading articles that explore these things is important. This is why education is so important. And, slowly, it will change minds and opinions and eventually erode the toxic structures that hurt not only women, but men too.